Peppered with practical, hands-on examples from Dr. Surrendering to the oneness of the parent-child relationship in this way lifts parenting out of the physical and into the realm of the sacred. Tsabary asks us to set aside traditional parenting strategies that major in controlling our children and instead find true kinship with their spirits by tuning into who each child is in its own unique essence.
Only to the degree we are willing to transform our own emotional present do we succeed in positively influencing our children’s future.ĭr. To do justice to parenthood, a parent needs to become conscious. Bequeathing to them our unresolved needs, unmet expectations, and frustrated dreams, we shackle them in unconscious patterns that shut them down to their own unique being. In other words, by inviting us to confront who we are in our relationship with them, our children raise us to be the parents they long for us to become.ĭespite our best intentions to raise our children well, in our unconsciousness we pass on emotional legacies to our children that have deep and lasting repercussions. As, through our intimate relationship with them, we are exposed to our immaturity, they become our most accurate mirror of our own lack of emotional development. Our children have the power to unleash our egoic behavior unlike anyone else, triggering all of our emotional reactivity. Shefali Tsabary’s A Call to Conscious Parenting is that our children are born to us to create deep internal transformation within us. While we think it’s our responsibility to mold and shape our children’s future, the essential premise of Dr. It’s a tremendous privilege to raise children, though for a quite different reason than most of us who are parents imagine.
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